DAY 1 — The Opening: Why Nigerian Women Must Know the Law and Their Digital Rights

This year has been open season on Nigerian women.

From the sexual harassment of Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan on the Senate floor, to the very public digital humiliation around Regina Daniels, to 83 recorded femicides by September 2025—the pattern is no longer “concerning.” It’s a crisis. A system failure. A national shame.

I wasn’t planning to do a #16Days campaign this year.

But the violence—offline and online—is now so brazen, so normalised, so state-enabled that silence would make me an accomplice.

So here we are.

Let me be clear: the institutions have been captured.

The police, the courts, the political parties, the regulatory agencies—everyone seems more invested in protecting abusers than in protecting women. And while the civil society industry continues pushing them to behave, I don’t have the patience to “wait and hope.”

So I am doing what I know how to do best: teach women what the law really is, how power really works, and how to defend themselves.

My approach is feminist, free-market, and unapologetically libertarian. I call it Exit Feminism. It’s not about begging the state for justice—it’s about building your own power, your own protection, your own strategy of survival and prosperity.

Instead of another depressing litany of statistics you already know, we’re going straight to the uncomfortable truths from this year’s UN theme: UNiTE to End Digital Violence Against Women and Girls.

Because technology hasn’t just changed how we live—

it has changed how we are abused, how we are shamed, how family law is weaponised, and how gendered violence is broadcast, monetised, and replicated.

Digital violence—defined by the UN as “any act committed, assisted, aggravated, or amplified by digital technology that causes or can cause physical, sexual, psychological, social, or economic harm”—is now a standard feature of modern Nigerian womanhood.

Over the next 16 days, I’ll be breaking down:

🔥 real case studies (yes, the ones everyone is scared to analyse)
🔥 what Nigerian law actually says about marriage, custody, divorce, and sexual harassment
🔥 how digital violence shows up in today’s family disputes
🔥 daily lawyer tips you can immediately use
🔥 surveys, videos, and maybe even TikTok
🔥 short essays on power—domestic and digital

Because knowledge is not just power — knowledge is armour.

And in 21st-century Nigeria, every woman needs armour.

This series is for women only.

No pricks allowed.

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